We know this is a stressful time, we hope that our resources are able to bring some comfort in this unstable time. We are experiencing this together!
We can do everything right or ethically, and we will still find ourselves needing to hold difficult conversation. Whether we need to learn how to set boundaries or confront other people in our lives, difficult conversations are hard to have, and often times we will try to ignore their necessity in living a peaceful and balanced life. If we learn how we can handle conflict best when it arises, then we will be less likely to experience anxiety in those moments, giving us the confidence to hear any criticisms with active listening and holding yourself or those counterparts accountable. Many people gather stress, which can lead to life-threatening health issues, rather than confront the people in their lives about the things they feel or experience. It's vital that we unlearn this tendency, and allow ourselves the grace to find our way through these events together, rather than losing community to a lack of action.
Coming out to your parents, friends, teachers, and family (etc.) can be very difficult. Getting the courage enough to say to someone you love (and not the mirror) can be a big jump. For many people it can be jump out of fear into love and support, but for others these people can be an unsafe person to talk to. Unfortunately in several states, it is now required that teachers notify parents if a child comes forward about a queer identity. So when deciding whether or not to come out, it's important to start with someone you know you can trust and who will guarantee your safety and acceptance. If you don't feel like this is available for you, then it's important to be strong and brave in keeping yourself safe. No one in the queer community wants you to be in an unsafe environment because of coming out, so make sure you choose a time where you have safe resources if need be. Many parents especially young parents, are devoted to making sure a child feels comfortable coming out to them or know about the choices they have when it comes to love later in life.
Cordisco & Saile has put together this guide dedicated to fostering awareness, education, and action towards the prevention of child abuse. In a world where the safety and well-being of our children should be paramount, it's crucial to engage in open discussions, share knowledge, and collectively work towards creating environments where every child can thrive. Linked: https://www.cordiscosaile.com/navigating-child-sex-abuse/
Precarious:
“Precarity (also precariousness) is a precarious existence, lacking in predictability, job security, material or psychological welfare. The social class defined by this condition has been termed the precariat.”
Precarity is a good gauge to use when looking at visible and non-visible identities, because we are gauging the level of danger for a given identity based on different situations. While some people may carry identity privileges, it does not take away from their precarious identities, or the impact they may have in someone’s day-to-day life. When discussing identities and power struggles, utilizing the lens of precarity can help us to navigate complex intersectional scenarios.
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